Mrs Adeoye
came to JASHABEL FOUNDATION on the 10th October, with the complain that her husband was
beaten her always, that she doesn’t give her personal allowance that will
enable her take care of herself, children’s petty needs, since he stopped her
from working. The foundation invited the husband Mr. Adeoye who sells phone
(headsets) at computer village and he made us to understand that he provides
everything the house needs , i.e. food stuffs, beverages, school fees, they own
their own house, he provides whatever she needs to his capacity e.t.c, the wife
has a shop built by him and anytime the kids takes anything they want , she
bills it on him, saying he must pay which is the area she claims his owing her.
She also joined a club where she started using body cream that turned her into
a fair woman overnight, anytime theirs an argument and she blocks him, in
trying to pull her out of the way her body turns red, which she attest to it her
self-saying the last pictures was not beating but with his hands. We counsel
them by letting the man know that domestic violence is a serious crime to commit
in Lagos and the nationwide and also, we informed the woman that whatever she does now will tell on her
three (3) daughters in future i.e the continuous fight between her and husband,
the abuses ( use of foul language where the children are) leaving the girl
child at home till late hours all in the name of club meetings/events is not
allowed and should be discontinued. It was settled amicably by the undertaken
they both signed.
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