They were legally married in 2008 but the center could not hold anymore
after four kids between them (a boy & 3 girls). Mr. Oyesanya works with a
generator installing company & lives in Ibadan while Mrs. Oyesanya has a
hairdressing salon & also into
bead making, catering, make-up etc lives
with her
family & the kids here in
Lagos.
We intervened
when she brought
the
case to us, called the husband to hear
from him & know why he is not taking care of the children despite been gainfully employed.
He came & explained, we then
called both of them back together to trash out raised issues. At the end, it was established that Mr. Oyesanya was no longer interested
in the marriage but was ready to bear part of the children responsibilities for now till he has finished
paying off a loan he collected then he can take full responsibility of their
upkeep. An undertaking was prepared for them too, which they both read,
accepted & signed for. Till
date, the agreement is still biding while Mr. Oyesanya
was also advised to
do the right thing by going to the appropriate office to dissolve the union